no your not the only one having this problem with patch 1.3 wish is crap tbh
alot of craches happens lately
some say it can also have something to do with bf2cc tool running 24/7 so if you hve that program running and you want to prevent some of the craching use ingame commands instead to admin by .
and pray to who ever you want to hope for a quick fix from ea's side [hand]
another thing stop all virus scanners and firewalls while playing